Changes and decisions

What do you decide and when is the time for it? Did you ever regret decisions? What gives you that grit to do it?

Questions we all ask ourselfs from time to time. Well, there are some of us who are not ready to make any decisions so they let others do it for them. Yes that's easier but to be honest, it is sad. I can't stand that. Some just always want to descide everything, others need time or don't know what to do..so they just let it be the way it is and accept the circumstances. Yes people are different, that I truly see. But, where is the satisfaction in there? Where is the meaning for not listening to yourself? Do we need to listen to anyone else exept ourselfs before making a decision? I believe and know how important it is to make decisions when we know that it cannot go on like that, that we get misstreated or are missunderstood. Nobody should feel like that and  I think it's important have the strengh to stand up and say however you feel about whatever gets you down... say it don't be afraid.

I had that so many times that I had to decide about things. Things that where already very clear in my subconsciousness, the last time on my wonderful trip to LA. Looking back, I've always chosen the right decision for myself at the end. Even if it was hard or disturbing at the moment to let go of something ore somebody I used to love. Decisions can be heartbreaking. Yes It sometimes hurts to see the truth but shouldn't you be worth it for yourself to step forward and do it? Staying true to yourself? Beeing honest to yourself and your dearest ist so important to not let yourself down. We might need a little push from somebody in our environment. Sometimes it's liberating and it can enrich our life more than we expect. I believe that we should never wait for anybody else telling us what is good for us or how we should decide, when to do it etc... We should listen to our hearts - no matter what the cause is. This can be family, love, job... We are the person we decide to be - we define ourselfs ! That really is true. Don't be afraid to take the step forward there's always an answer afterwards why this decision had to happen...just give it time.

 

Share your expierience here with me...it would be lovely to hear your opinion about it!

 

 


Durch unsere Entscheidungen definieren wir uns selbst. Allein durch sie können wir unseren Worten und Träumen Leben und Bedeutung verleihen. Allein durch sie können wir aus dem, was wir sind, das machen, was wir sein wollen.

(Sergio Bambaren)

 

 

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Kommentare: 10
  • #1

    Ändy (Dienstag, 07 Oktober 2014 21:12)

    Z nacht am 11i e diskussion über liebi lebe entscheidige füehre und sich bime tee dihei fühle. Kurzi moment vo rueh entspanntheit und tüüfi gspröch

  • #2

    Ani (Dienstag, 07 Oktober 2014 21:27)

    "staying honest to yourself" - it's sometimes a hard thing to do, but I agree with you, Ollie, it's super important.
    It might take time to figure things out, but in the end it is worth it if you can look back and realize the decision you made was the best one.
    I'm looking forward to reading more ;)

  • #3

    feyphotographics (Dienstag, 07 Oktober 2014 22:00)

    Ja das stimmt und genau so moment sind doch di riichste im Lebe nid? Sich chöne mit öpperem dehei fühle - eifach so und glich wo..herrlich das isch was zellt

    Thank you Ani for your feedback - you are so right about that..realizing things and stepping forward..there is much more to exchange and discuss about. That is only the start of something very good!

  • #4

    Oscar (Dienstag, 14 Oktober 2014 23:02)

    Honesty is the foundation of personal and interpersonal interaction. Honesty to ourselves and honesty to others. Sometimes in life changes will lead to decisions and decisions to changes. The important thing is that we face those decisions and changes with honesty.

    I love your website O! Kept up the amazing work!

  • #5

    tom (Donnerstag, 02 April 2015 20:15)

    Hallo Olivia,


    es gibt bekanntlich keine blöden Fragen, aber kann es sein das du ursprünglich aus der Schweiz bist? Aus Vilters?

    Falls ja, so kannten wir uns aus deiner Zeit vor deinem USA Aufenthalt. Bin Tom aus Stuttgart, hatten vor einigen Jahren bereits Konversationen. Vielleicht erinnerst du dich noch dunkel daran?

    Freut mich falls ich dich gefunden haben sollte.

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  • #7

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